You mentioned that “We signed up for this before we incarnated”
That is the standard New Age view. The same New Age movement that has its origins in the works of Alice Bailey and her organisation the Lucis Trust (originally the Lucifer Publishing Company) enshrined at the United Nations.
The opposing view, the Soul Reincarnation Trap (or trick), is that we did not consent to reincarnate and were coerced at best or forced to reincarnate at worst. Consent under duress or through trickery is not actual consent, even by using the legal system definition that passes for law in our reality.
Rather than regurgitate my previous comments, I explain more below in a debate with another commenter:
https://off-guardian.org/2025/03/08/its-progress-dummy/#comment-712688